2010 - reassessing my friendships/emotions (LONG...)

[*LittleMissSummer*]

I'm so joining in!! My new years resolution for next year is to forget about all those people who have forgotten about me. 2010 should be the year we all look at our lives and see how we can make it better and by getting rid of people who bring us down and dont make us feel good.

[smiles4u]

Oh Oorki (Ellissa) so wish you & i lived closer as i reckon you are my cuppa tea or coffee as a friend, i have an acquaintance here in Ballarat just as you are describing as much as she is genuinely lovely as a person and i can have a great laugh with her she is every time i see her telling me all the ' nice stuff ' she clearly must think i wanna hear about myself, and she repeats it over & over to the point i actually feel a tad embarrassed which is pretty rare for me and it seriously drives me batty

... i don't know what it is about me but i attract particular slim chicks who often go one about their weight issues, telling me how they have gotta lose a couple of kilo's that's gonna kill them to do, OMG wahhh i just want be around people that can really be happy within their own skin no matter what ... and women with i'm talking BIG insecurity issues that feel better to drag others down to make themselves feel better i just think is so evil ... well, you should see how fast i run then

Yeh, i so understand Sunshine (Jen) where you are coming from in regards to some so-called friends !!

... i have been here in Ballarat for 5years and i never in my dreams thought it would take this long to find/stumble across someone i could see as friend material ... just someone as Oorki described who is happy within themself & happy with their life, i mean someone who makes the best out of their life situation & do with it what they can that makes them feel great & can at least smile & feel proud no matter how large or small their goals are in life.

I said to DP the other day " I think i'm kind of looking for someone like myself, i guess someone who is like minded, is that weird ?? " ... and he said with a smile " And it took you this long to work that out "

[BrightSparkles]

I said to DP the other day " I think i'm kind of looking for someone like myself, i guess someone who is like minded, is that weird ?? " ... and he said with a smile " And it took you this long to work that out "

My Dh says that all the time!!! Maybe now i'll start listening....

[*LittleMissSummer*]

There comes a point in your life when you realize: Who matters, Who never did, Who won't anymore... And who always will. So, don't worry about people from your past, there's a reason why they didn't make it to your future.

This is one of my friends status on facebook and its so true and it so applies to each and every one of us