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  1. #1
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    Jun 2009
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    I just wanted to let you know that I thought of you yesterday. I hope you ended up having a lovely day.

  2. #2
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    Nov 2011
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    Oh Cass thankyou so much.

    Actually it was a bit crappy. Sunday night my sister text to tell me she has something to tell me and would call me Sunday (which she never did) i reckon she is UTD... And if she isnt thats a dumb text to send me, and my sister in law announced her second pregnancy at lunch - I wanted the whole world to swallow me up.

    But... DSD made me a lovely necklace - even though it broke I was truly appreciative. And DH and I went out to the movies. So I survived. It wasn't the ideal day. But I made it.
    Thankyou lovely lady x

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    Lots of hugs. xoxox.

  4. #4
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    Hearing about a new pregnancy is certain to be a bittersweet event. When we were TTC DS2 my cousin announced her surprise pregnancy. I cried like a banshee because she has always said how much she hated being pregnant. I thought it so selfish of the powers that be to grant her a baby and not me. Hang in there. You can only get through these things one little step at a time. Be kind to yourself on this journey.

    I think it's lovely that your DSD made you a necklace.

  5. #5
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    Nov 2011
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    Sister never called, but I asked my mum who confirmed what I knew. My sister is too gutless to tell me herself but yes she is 12 weeks pregnant. Happy Mother's Day myturn

    mostly I'm okay, not going to behave like my sister would and not go to her birthday this weekend, although I'd liked punish her, I am not that kind of person. Going to let her stew and make her tell me herself though.

    Speaking of what NOT to do... This is IT!