Great thread!

This is something I’ve learned from a person called David Wil****. I myself am getting more and more to that level where these negative experiences simply don’t give me any value because I don’t let myself get attached to them:

Negative experiences will repeat for as long as they remain useful to you. Well then you have to ask what does useful mean? If something ****es you off, then you’re getting value/use out of it because its co-creating an emotional reaction. So if you can learn to not get too attached to the moment and simply let the experiences move through you without getting stuck to you – and you bless and you release and you forgive and you accept and you love. Then more and more those experiences wont repeat anymore because you’re not gonna get any value out of them. They wont hold any value for you.

If you believe you cant forgive someone, or you don’t want to, or you shouldn’t, etc. Then that believe is limiting you from being free and being at peace with yourself and therefore being at peace with others as well. In my opinion forgiveness is so vital in our lives if you want to experience more positive feelings, be happy and really enjoy life as much you can.