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I am looking for affirmations and the like to help me accept my body .

for years now its been the forefront of my existance , unhealthily i think about it all the time .

i never look my self in the eye and see anything nice , i feel that everyone is waay more attractive no matter their size of shape .

I need to feel ok and accept that is fine to put on a few hundered grams , and that my body looks great no matter what weight it is .

I need to stop feeling like i have to tell my self im ugly , fat or small boobs or saddle bags or what ever .

on paper i have it fine , im 167cm , 59 kgs no stretch marks from 2 pregnancies , only a few dimples in my thighs and apart from the dimples cellutlie is non existant to the nakes eye . i have oilve skin , bright blue eyes size 10 ... all in all its not bad .


BUT i know i posses those qualities , so why am i not happy .. I need to move on from the body bashing and grow into a woman who is accepting of herself , im accepting and loving of everyone else flaws and all ( if you want to call them a flaw - if were all differnt than do we even have flaws ??? )

So mantra , meditations or affirmations are needed to bring me to a place where i can say " yeah i am woman , i own my body , it its beautiful"

i need help with this as i could never sat it on my own ....

i need to be mature and see clearly so it doesnt affect my life .