Huge hugs hunny. It's so hard isn't it I honestly think it is all about your mental attitude, not about your body at all. When you're feeling self confident as a whole then you feel happy with yourself. I know when i'm feeling like crap, when somebody beats me to something or I ffeel i've let myself or others down then I can look at myself - my hips, my arse with disgust. But when i'm feeling on top of the world then I can look in the mirror and be really happy with myself!

So I guess you need to think about what makes you happy as a whole? What do you do that makes you have a huge smile on your face? Find out what that is and then try and find a way to keep that feeling of happiness and confidence all the time.

And BTW i've met you and you're bloody gorgeous (and that was how long after giving birth???) AND you forgot to mention your beautiful hair...after the Chrissy meet up last year I actually took to a curling wand trying to recreate your look and failed miserably lol!