OMG that was annoying me just reading it!! I agree with everyone. If you want to end the friendship then you have to tell her. Or you can just place limits on it. Just start saying no. When you talk to her next tell her she can't come over when the baby is born, if she has an excuse just say 'No, sorry, you can't'. If she turns up when you don't want her just say 'sorry, not a good time, next time call ahead so you don't have to come all the way here and turn around again, talk to you later, BYE!'