Thanks JaspI also don't think there is such thing as "thinking too much"... there is directionless thought and unproductive thought (idealistic/wishful thinking) but they are different. I really can't stand it when people accuse me of "thinking too much"... to me it's just a masked way of saying "shut up"... or "I can't follow you".... or "listen to my thoughts instead". As if you can tell a person to stop thinking anyhow.
It might be cyclical. If you take into account my numerology I am on the cusp of a 9 and 1 year... ie between the end of a nine year cycle and the start of the next one. I think about this a lot... fortunately DH is on the same cycle (we both are number 2 people if that makes any sense). Anyhow we both accutely feel that we are waiting for the next big thing. Next year is going to be a "1" year for both of us.
Manta: you'll be pleased to know that DH has agreed to me moving furniture!So when he takes leave from work in a fortnight we are going to swap the lounge and office areas! The office is currently in what was meant to be the formal lounge-room (we live in an older home)... so we have decided to use the house as it was intended... and put the lounge in the lounge room.
OK... so after reading Jasp's post I am prepared to accept that maybe this is cyclical... and instead of stressing out I might just calm down and celebrate the achievements I make... I defrosted the freezer last night after the boys went to bed instead of falling in a heap...Today I stretched a cross-stitch sampler over acid-free card in preparation for framing (very tedious business)
And DH talked to me about starting up his own business so we can move abroad...
it's not so bad....
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