Hey Bek, please take this in a lovely positive way ... is it possible you have some areas about your character you feel you could AND would like to improve on (i don't mean as in you changing yourself BUT more like improving on IYKWIM !!!

For example ... i feel more attracted to people who can smile & mean it, ask questions about others without looking forced too & look interested in doing so, appear to be secure with one's self, speak in a positive tone, show a love for life & appreciate all of what we have whilst we are here and can talk with an open mind & heart

It does help to be a good talker (or chatterbox, LOL) but that's not an easy characteristic for all to have ... and it needs to be an area you would feel comfortable in doing and some people do enjoy listening more than speaking themselves

So, i hope i have helped at least a little there ... and another thing which is great you are doing is that you clearly like yourself and that appeals to people when that shines through