DH is approaching the big four oh and tells me he feels like he hasn't done enough with his life, that there are things on his "list" that he hasn't crossed off. Not a bucket list but a "before I'm 40 list".

Then he asked me what's on mine. I told him I didn't really have one.

So tell me, do you have one? If so, what's on it? If you care to share that is! Any sort of list of long-term things to do, be it before you shuffle off this mortal coil, before a milestone or whatever!