i'm a big one for thanking people but i don't expect to be thanked...well, not for household stuff. if my DP vacuumed the house i'd be more likely to say 'nice one' than thank you!

i have found it a tough transition from work to being a SAHM in that i have no idea how i'm going. well, i mean - we're all still here & we are fed & have clean clothes (most of the time) but there's no feedback like there is at work. i find that a little weird seeing i'm a bit driven by results.