Thtas what i was thinking too BG.. but then i thought about it a bit more and i thought maybe that could still be considered two seperate journeys... a journey of sadness for our losses or our wanting, which ended when our new journey of hope and new beginings began, which had the happy outcome of babies in our arms... but i also dont agree that changing feelings can always change outcomes.. even the best intentions and great feelings bring along pain sometimes, thats just life!!!!

An interesting thing to ponder though!! Thanks Sopdet