When I am going to get judged, c’mon I’m spoiling for a fight!

[PumpkinZulu]

Haha, I know the feeling. Maybe you just aren't looking for it Try harder, geeze!! I can judge you if you want? Your...erm, avatar, it's too...ahhh, FLOWERY! Yeah, I said it.

But I agree. I haven't really come up against much judgement (that I've noticed) irl. I too have my comebacks ready

[*Belle*]

Meh! Lets wave to all the people judging us on Monday mornings hon when we flop out our boobies when we are having a coffee!!!

[Epacris]

Meh! Lets wave to all the people judging us on Monday mornings hon when we flop out our boobies when we are having a coffee!!!

Just for the benefit of everyone else, and as an example to illustrate my point, Belle and I have breakfast together every Monday morning at a cafe at our local shops with our babies.

We sit right in the middle with our hulking great prams, flop our boobs out everywhere and without exception, everyone, staff and customers alike, are absolutely lovely. The waitresses even hold and bounce our babies for us (if they’re not too busy) so we can eat our bacon and eggs with a knife AND a fork – with two hands! One morning a lady was staring at me while I was talking to my DS2 and I said to her “we just love each other” and she said, “I know, I can see that, I’m so sorry to stare but it’s just so lovely to watch” and then we both started crying (this is not unusual, I cry all the time) and she said she was just planning her mother’s funeral and it was so lovely to see a happy baby, the circle of life and all. So I handed DS2 over to her for a cuddle and she said “It’s 18 years since I held a baby, thank you so much”. Anyway, lovely stuff like that happens all the time to me. Old man fruiters, anyone, everyone, everything is just so positive. Life is good. I guess I’m not really looking for a bit of biffo, I’m too busy.