I'm worried that it will actually get worse when I go back to work. I'm never alone there, and even if I do get the office to myself I'm always on the phone. It's a mentally draining job and leaves me wanting alone time just as much as anything else but I won't be able to get it because I need to spend what time I can get out of work worth my family.

Losing sleep for alone time isn't an option right now. I'm already not getting enough, I can't stay up late when I'm exhausted just to be by myself when I know the baby will wake any minute. Same for getting up early. As for naps, while DH is home I've been sleeping every time DS does.

I think if DS starts sleeping a bit better even in the early part of the night I'll be right, I can do my own thing for an hour or so and then spend time with DH.