PCOS needs to be diagnosed with a transvaginal ultrasound and blood tests to see your hormone levels. I'm concerned that your doc is throwing labels out there based on no indicators - that's great that it's getting you the result you want, but it makes me wonder how good a doc he is, y'know?
I totally agree with Keike. You need a full hormonal work up. I understand what the Ob/gyn is saying about there being a broader definition of PCOS now, but you still need to fit within certain parameters. In my instance I am of a healthy to slightly under BMI, I have no facial hair, my testosterone is in normal range. That being said I have PCO on transvaginal ultrasound (quite severe about 35 on one and 30 on the other), my LH and FSH are out of whack and I had very irregular cycles at diagnosis (although giving birth to my DD seems to have fixed that side of things as for the first time in my life I have regular cycles between 28 and 35 days).

Sounds a little suss to me.

Janie xxx