Hey PB&J - another person with PCOS (I don't like being a sufferer )
I knew I had PCOs but as I was on the pill it masked the PCOS symptoms until we decided to TTC. After months of nothing (no periods), I went to a FS who triggered AF and did 4 clomid cycles (I didn't have any reaction to the clomid). After that I had an ovarian cyst so had to have a cycle off before trying IUI, then it was Christmas, so I decided to take myself off to a naturopath to get my body right. Suffice to say with herbs we were pregnant on cycle #1! Went back to her to trigger AF when DS was 13 months old and again - first cycle! Unfortunately that was our angel baby and we're now back trying with her in the first proper cycle post m/c.

I still have long cycles 40+days but a good luteal phase. Working on losing weight and taking some herbs to try to shorten my cycle.

So basically I'm saying it's worth trying naturopathy. There are herbs that help with insulin resistance if you have an issue with that - certainly helped me lose weight! Weight loss is awesome - good on you for doing so much of that already!! My naturopath is also a nurse who used to work in IVF so she's happy to work along side the medical people if you want to do both, I'm sure you can find someone like her.

Good luck! As my FS said to me on the first visit "you will get pregnant, don't worry, it'll happen".