Leis, thanks for your kind thoughts. It's funny since I have joined the forum I often think about all you guys as well. It gave me a lot of strength when I was in hospital this time knowing I was not alone. I am so sorry to hear about your family problems, it makes it hard when things dont run to plan when you have to have surgery. I mentioned in the LTTC forum about my sisters miscarriage this week. It was certainly a hard week, and imagine the next month wont be easy on you either. That lovely DH of yours will have to spoil you rotten I think, I know my DH looks after me and has a heart of gold when I get out of hospital.