Painful intercourse and Endometriosis

[Aimz]

When it comes to entry pain it's hard to avoid it completely - but there are things that you can do to make it less painful.

Lots of relaxation and then foreplay to create natural lubricant is a great start. Personally, I use an oil based lubricant which I find to be much better than water based - this type of lubricant isn't suitable for use with condoms though so be aware of that. The worst thing she can do is be tense - so reassure her that you are going to be gentle. The best type of lubricant is the one she makes herself - so take lots of time with her

The worst part for me is usually the "getting it in" part. Once it's in it is usually bareable. Just don't expect too much from her - my DH knows that sex doesn't give me too much pleasure because it's hard to take my mind off the pain. He knows I only really do the sex part for him. The foreplay is for me. If you can both openly express how you feel you can work around the pain and still have a great sex life.

[dreamer]

When it comes to entry pain it's hard to avoid it completely - but there are things that you can do to make it less painful.

Lots of relaxation and then foreplay to create natural lubricant is a great start. Personally, I use an oil based lubricant which I find to be much better than water based - this type of lubricant isn't suitable for use with condoms though so be aware of that. The worst thing she can do is be tense - so reassure her that you are going to be gentle. The best type of lubricant is the one she makes herself - so take lots of time with her

The worst part for me is usually the "getting it in" part. Once it's in it is usually bareable. Just don't expect too much from her - my DH knows that sex doesn't give me too much pleasure because it's hard to take my mind off the pain. He knows I only really do the sex part for him. The foreplay is for me. If you can both openly express how you feel you can work around the pain and still have a great sex life.

Thank you for your help.

I would say that the 'getting it in' part as you say lol is the most difficult with my gf too. It seems to work well when I hold her at night and in the early hours start a little foreplay, she seems to be very relaxed an enoy it then, perhaps she doesnt think of the pain. And during those hours she does get aroused a great deal more and we have enjoyed some great lovemaking.

I hope other gils in similar situations are open with their partners because we are not as insensitive as we lead you guys to believe. I think most will try very hard to make sure the pain is taken out of the equation.

I would tell you a technique you can use on your partner that will drive him a little crazy and wont know what him but I don't know if that is appropriate here, so I will refrain unless anyone wants me to private them. It doesnt involve intercourse but he will be more than satisfied and you will get a kick out of what you can do to him.

Thank again guys.