Hi Anney and BG,

I was actually trying to figure out why I get very messy when I'm on the puregon (crying, anger etc) and I thought that it was because I was on a higher dose. Sounds like the PCOS is the problem, as it is so unpredictable (thanks Anney for your brilliant explanation BTW).

BG, I had a big talk with my Mum too and she said it was just easier to go with the flow and my MIL will have to cope with whatever is going on. Mum said 'are you really going to postpone this forever' and I realised I was going back into old patterns and putting myself last. As I said to her, this is probably why I am 38 and in this situation. She said the only two important people in this situation is you and DH, everyone else is a lesser priority. That made me feel a whole lot better.