thanks Cindy - I am thinking I will have the lap next month. it feels a bit strange to be planning a surgical procedure - the only time i have ever had an operation/been in hospital was when i had my appendix out at 15 and that was an emergency so i wasn't really aware of what was going on at the time!!

maybe this is a silly question - but how long does it take after a lap before you can bd again? does it mean that cycle will be a total bust and i will have to wait for the next one before ttc again?

also, congrats on your pregnancy
sam