I just had baby number 4. After we had bub 3 Dh was adamant we weren't having anymore. I just didn't feel done.. I used to get upset at the thought of never having another baby. after much discussion we came to a compromise. We would try for one year and if I wasn't pg then we would be happy with 3. Thankfully 9th month I found out I was pg.

I had my tubes tied during my c/s. I will admit over the last couple days I have felt a little sad this part of my life is finished but I know 5 children is to many and I am happy with my decision to get "fixed"

I think you need to sit down with Dh and ask him what his biggest reasons for NOT wanting another baby are? and if it is just the sleepless nights ect and the pregnancy ask him to ask himself how long that really lasts for. For my DH it was the worry and stress that pregnancy brings.

Anyways not sure if that helps any.. so far life is great with 4 kids. A little tough getting in and out of the car and shopping isn't the most fun thing but I know it will get better.