Hi ladies (again, sorry, lots of questions today!)

So as you may or may not be aware, DH and I are trying to conceive another baby. We lost a baby in July last year, and have been ttc since. We have one DD who just turned 4 and possibly wants a baby more than we do, haha!

For one reason or another (mainly depression and cancer), we weren't able to ttc until DD was 3, and even then I wasn't sure. But I am now, and I get anxious with every failed cycled that the gap between our children is getting bigger and bigger every day.

So, what gaps do you have between your children, and the pros and cons of the gaps? Am I silly to worry about this?

And also, we will probably look to TTC #3 soon after #2, and I worry that DD will be separate from them in a way itms?

Please, help me put my fears at ease xo