Thanks ladies,

I know that his thinking was that if he invited them here whilst he was home then I would be left alone for the rest of the day. Only problem is because everyone is working anyway I am being left alone for the rest of the day. I know that there is no chance of having him change plans with his family, just have to deal with it.
But I am going to talk to him tomorrow. I just cannot do this anymore. I used to look forward to the holidays, but now I could not care less about them. Im to the point that public holidays are just a pain in the backside for me when it comes to getting things done.
And i think the thought of public holidays makes how little time we spend together is more visible.