wow.this is a topic that is really important to me.as i was growing up i told myself i was never going to put my children through any of the mysery i had to endure as a child,i wanted my children to always be happy and never ashamed of there home or family.
i ended up doing just that and more.i have infact gone over bored and spoilt them rotten and in dsoing so have actually taught my little boys how to be very selfish and inconsiderate..it is really difficult for me to say NO as i hate to see them sad but i now have caused them to think i am horrible when i really do have to say NO.they are so used to getting there own way that i have damaged them.
the one thing that is not missing among this family unit is tonnes and tonnes of love.our children know they are loved and really think themselves very very lucky and fortunate to live with the parents they have after visiting friends houses.
nikki