thread: BIL got married 3 months ago and we found out today!

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  1. #1
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    Jul 2005
    Sydney
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    Hmph. Only on the outside, MR. And I'm so determined that our family is not going to operate like that. Plus, as an aside, I'm kinda hoping as a bonus it makes them feel just a little guilty for not saying something. But that would be petty, wouldn't it?!

  2. #2
    Life Subscriber

    Jul 2006
    Brisbane
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    Well, maybe a little petty but I know I'd feel the same way! It's perfectly natural that you are upset by this.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    4,427

    That is truly bizzarre.I am not surprised that you were shocked seeming you had been making such an effort to re-build the relationship.
    I think the celebration dinner idea is a good one and def a lovely thing to do.
    I will be interested to hear what they say to you when you tell them that you heard they were married 3 mths ago from MIL.