Jen...

I think some people don't place the importance on marriage that others do kwim? Maybe for them it was just a formalizing of what they already have so it's not the big deal it would be to others?

Perhaps she didn't know how to just slip it into the conversation?

I don't know... What I do know is that you are handling it beautifully and I bow down to your emotional intelligence...

Its the way they deal with it - it's not your issue... Drop over with a gift. Wish them well and keep being beautiful you.

May the bridges be mended...