Seth has to help Paris pick up his toys now. And if he doesn't help he doesn't get to play with anything else. I know I'm an ogre, but we make it a game and he's fine he loves it. I made the mistake with Paris by not getting her to help out till she was over 3, I won't do that with Seth LOL! I probably am slightly more focused with Seth because Paris is naturally neat, whereas I don't want Seth to be someone else's problem when he's older iykwim?