Thank you Lulu, i think its something we're going to have to save up for to get done properly. I'm wondering if we should do the public trustee will in the mean time though, or is it a hassle to change later?? just that i know i'll get a decent nights sleep as soon as i have *something* official in place iykwim?

How come you urge against the letter of wishes? are they not taken seriously?

Thank you for letting meknow abut the EPA - something else we will have to do aswell.

Can you recommend anyone? otherwise i will go through the yellow pages and see who i can find in my area and get a quote.