cool thanks for the answers. ive been copping a lot of people telling me im horrible for thinking of it, if you cant cope with having it at home why have another one etc.
I dont know if we will need a place as hoping DH will be home once I return to work, but we may so that is a good idea as well.
I does really like it there and refers to his friends as "the boys" (we have an im only playing withboys thing happening at the moment..)

thanks again.