Hi FirstKid, congrats on your pregnancy.

It all works out in the end....I have a 4.5 year old, 2.5 year and 11 week old bub and my DH works overseas - away 6 weeks, back for 2 weeks. I was petrified....but amazingly enough it seems easier than going from 1 to 2. The two eldest play together alot now which is great. I do alot of online shopping - lol - groceries, nappies and Australian Dairy Farmers for bread and milk twice a week. I find the whole dinner/bath and into bed the hardest part of the day, so if dinner is pretty much organised in the morning then it is just a reheat or turn the oven on then this helps alot. The two eldest only get bathed every second day and a wipe over with facecloth and soap on the day off. If you get one thing done a day then that is great if not, there is always tomorrow. In the early days, if your kids are happy, fed and you get them into bed each night then you have done a great job and then from here it hopefully gets easier. It all falls into place. Good luck x