We are moving 3 1/2 hours away.
At the moment Ashlea goes to dad's each tuesday afternoon and every second weekend for one night. We decided to change it to every second weekend for the friday and saturday night to make up for the tuesday he would miss. I said I would drive to melb once a month, and he can drive down once a month so she still sees him every second weekend but its not too much driving for her or either of us.
We are moving down cause i have no family at all here, and all my family and his family are in w'bool. I am still very close with his family and he knows it.
Living down there will mean saving $80 a week on rent, $60 a week on childcare, $60a term on kinder fees, not to mention the petrol we will save and the family support we will have. I have a huge credit card debt and need to get on top of things. Her father will not contribute at all to kinder or day care, thinking that the $40 a week child support is meant to be sufficient. He told me to pull her out of kinder rather than help out financially.
Plus for the people who know of the drama's associated with his psycho girlfriend, i want to get away from it all.
Plus, my sis is due with her first child in 8 weeks, my Aunty down there is very very sick at the moment, my grandpa down there probably wont see the end of the year and mum is moving back from sydney at the end of the year.
Its been a tough 4 years in melbourne, even though i did love it, now i just am not happy here anymore and feel back home is the place to be.
Even ashlea wants to move back, she misses all her family like crazy.
The only reason he changed his mind is because he wants to control me, he cant stand to think iof me being happy and does everything in his power to do what he can to get a reaction out of me.
Its about time he grows up, stops being so bitter and selfish and moves on.