I'm sort of in the opposite situation. In the beginning we always said we would have 2 ch'n, hopefully a boy and a girl. But now DH say's "but what if we have 2 girls? I want 3 if that happens." He has this desire to pass on his name but i'm pretty sure 2 will be enough for me. I don't think I can ever love someone like I love Olive but then I think if I had 2 boys I would definatly try for a girl so feel abit hypocritical.
How do you think your DH would feel if he had 2 girls?
DG. i could have written that post myself, almost word for word. but we had two girls.
it took 7 yrs, but dh changed his mind. i didnt nag him or guilt trip him or anything like that over the years, but i did still mention it from time to time. One day he realized that it really was still important to me. and he said he was happy to try again.
just a pity it took him so long.. cos now i am OLD. and his big concern was that i would then want another one to keep this one company... no thanks.
you just dont know what the future holds. he may come round in a year or two ... or seven...
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