yeah... it could have been a little girly outfit I guess.. to acknowledge 'yay' it's a girl.

oh and I think the hair-do is a great pressie for yourself! Always spend gift money on things you wouldn't normally buy yourself. If you wouldn't have had it done normally.. then good on you!

Try not to stress about it. It might be a one off. There was probably no malice behind it. Perhaps see if it becomes a pattern of them not showing #3 as much attention, and see if it's worth bringing it up with them.

The horrible thing with stuff like this, is we sit and home and stew about it, while their happily going about their day, oblivious to how they've made us feel. Sometimes it's best to just let it slide and try not to let it get to you.

ps. I can't believe how close you are to having the baby! OMG! Hope it happens soon!