we have a QS bed and DD's toddler bed in our room at the moment - about to move her into a single in our room. she has her own bedroom with double bed if/when she chooses to move out, but in the mean time, it's the spare bed for visitors. we aren't in any hurry to move her out - our house is very long, with our room seperated from the rest of the house. i sleep better knowing she is nearby if she needs us, she sleeps better in with us - it doesn't hurt her, us or anyone else, so she can stay in there for now. she will find her independent streak and ask to sleep in her own room when she is ready...