Awww no Bec, don't get into the trap I did... I would take the kids off him and comfort them as they would cry for me too, but now he can NEVER settle them - they both want me all the time when tired, hurt etc so don;t get into that trap!

Get her to leave you over you leaving her, so she thinks she is going and you aren't then have some time to yourself. I know it's hard, but you will never have a break and end up the crazy frazzled mum like me