OMG YES THE WASHING

I have only recently added #3 - he is 11 wks old today - he is soooooo placid - and like Trillian posted, I think it also has to do with his environment. I don't have time to stress if he has a bad feed or won't go to sleep during the day - I have to do school run, and still do the shopping etc - he just kinda fits in.

However having said that I do find it hard sometimes cos no matter how "good" they are, still time consuming with feeding settling, changing and all that - that is the biggest thing I noticed (again )

DH and I just said the other day what an absolute joy he is.

Good luck.