I held a newborn the other day to see what DS's reaction would be to me cuddling another bub.. he didn't give a hoot! LMAO.

I bought this book, but it is probably a bit old for him.. but ya never know.. certainly won't hurt to read it to him

As for being gentle - DS is learning to be gentle with ME! LOL. When I say to be gentle, he goes from clapping his hands on my cheek to a lovely soft gentle stroke down my cheek. hehe. I don't think I'll bother with a doll. Altho.. I dunno! He shows interest in babies when we see them, or if a baby comes on TV. hmm..