i always had 4 as the number i wanted. a nice even number. lol once i had 2 i felt content and went back and forward as to have another. my lovely dh didn't have an opinion one way or the other. he's nicely given me free reign to decide how many kids i wanted. lol of course having 2 boys makes me want to try for a girl but i was still going back and forth. i decided to just do it. i knew i'd never regret having another but i might regret NOT, kwim? So now i'm pregnant with number 4 after 3 years of not wanting anymore. lol i don't know what i'd do without Master 3 though. he's the joy of all our lives.