Liebling was 4 when I said ok, he's readh to be a brother. He ended up having to wait until he was 8, but I wasn't ready til he was. Not really. I knew I wanted another, but was happy to wait for him.
I reckon Stormageddon will be ok with it earlier, given his temperament. Will have to wait and see, as I won't wean him just for a small age gap. I'm thinking maybe start trying again just before he turns 3. Hahaha, Liebs will be 11 then and will have had "the talk" at school, his face will be a picture if that happens!
thanks Mummas for all your replies. i just felt so bad within my self to some days feel ready - & other days to think my gosh how will i manage 2?! - wasn't sure if that was normal or not.
it's so hard! i remember when we decided to TTC DD1 i felt like this & when she arrived we thought why were we worrying so much - wouldn't change her for the whole entire world!!!!
so surely i'm just being silly & overthinking. surely i wouldn't regret having #2, but i think i would regret not having #2. have always wanted a sibling for our DD.
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