Ohh a house cleaner and a dishwasher...them there are stuff fantasies are made of (well my odd ones anyway)
lol thank Taurean.. luckily DH is awesome about it... he cooks dinner some nights now (although I have to tell him 50,000 times how to do it) and cleans up a little bit.. but the house is still a complete mess!! DOES MY HEAD IN!
I hated the mess - and constantly nagging DH to do more, hence the cleanerI honestly did wonder if I'd ever feel normal again, ever be able to cook, clean, get myself and DD ready and live some kind of normal existence but I did. Around the 5 month mark, things felt really normal again and I was back hosting dinner parties for a dozen
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My DH was excellent help, still is, but boy did he have to raise the bar to keep me saneOh, and he still gets a regular boot up the butt!
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We are just about to hire a cleaner too. Just fortnightly to do the floors and bathrooms. DH suggested it ages ago but I felt too guilty then but he is about to start working away (4 weeks on, one week off) and I'll have all his regular jobs to do as well so I feel ok about it now!
Daily stuff though, I unstack dishwasher in the mornings, drop DD off at school, clean up breakfast dishes, fold washing while Oprah is on (during DS's nap), Generally tidy all day, I rarely sit down to be honest. I'd like to start cooking dinner during DS's nap too (as he gets so grumpy in the evenings) but that just doesn't happen!
I have a tidy house but don't vacuum/mop/clean bathrooms/de-cobweb nearly as often as I'd like. I do a mad clean if someone is visiting, I hate when people drop in unexpectedly!
I have my lazy days though, where nothing gets done. Today was one of them! Ah well, guess I'll catch up tomorrow!
Well i have two kids preg with #3......
i do feel swamped but if i keep on top of it all....it works out
ill set aside a day for ironing, one for folding laundry
My house isnt spotless and never will be unless i hire someone to do it for me...
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