I wanted 6, DH didn't (he said 2), we compromised on 3.

DH is still buying and wearing condoms and my menopause is approaching (I seem to be having a few anovulatary cycles a year, either that or I just really irregular after small bouts of semi-regularity). That's how he decided - and my unhappiness about it is invalid, in his eyes. Cos it's all about him - and it should be all about me. (Yes, I see neither PoV is correct - but I am a heck of a lot older than I wanted to be now and fertility doesn't last forever in women.)