I'll be 28 this year Our plan was to be done by 30.

It's the oops thing that gets me!! I have an IUD in....so given it's working well any oops isn't going to have a good result anyway. I got it because I knew that if I was on the pill or depo I'd just not take it or not get it done....as much as that's what I want I couldn't do that to DH. It's his life and his family and his decision too.

My first wasn't really an oops, we led family to believe he was but he wasn't (shhh!). DD was an oops, purely from our own stupidity but that was OUR stupidity together. My baby took me 12 months to get. Because our first two were so close I wanted my kids to be fairly close in age, so in that line of thinking we'd need to get cracking, lol.

Ah welll it's not to be......I just want him to understand that it's not that simple for me. I need to give it time and work through it.