The thing that really annoys me is the freedom dh has. He just goes "I'm going up for a shower" and leaves. I mean, I would love to just go well, I'm off to have a shower/ work on my car/ go to mates place. But when I want to do it, it requires planning and bargaining.
oooooooooh, I SO get this- not that my DH does it maliciously, he just can be thoughtless, not understanding my perspective.

I too think that the time will come when DS is older that I will get more time. The other day DH took DS on their first ever 'boys outing' (to the airshow). I had like 2-3 hours at home alone- it was bliss. I just try to hold on to the fact this will happen more and Peter gets older (and then I will probably miss them!).

Maybe I need to get off my butt and organise some girly things...