i think you've come up with a good compromise with the brag book - it's what my mum did with photos of her first and second grandkidlets. now she shares on facebook - i'm a friend on FB so i see what she posts, she knows what limits i have, and i can see who she has befriended. i'm also a shocker for privacy stuff so i set her FB up so that no photos can be copied by anyone else from her profile.