Again, thanks guys! I agree def not not disagree with each other in front of the kids. What do you think is best? Say that we'll talk about it later? Or even just send the kids away while we talk about it?

Its discipline I think is the most important thing that we should agree on. He has already been a positive influence on them, making them get outside and play more, do more sport and even help him cook.

Now i just want to get there already!