Some may remember me posting about my brother trying to get me to call my biological dad.

Well his at it again.
After telling him it's been 13 years since i have a contact with him I DO NOT want to have any contact with him and I do not want to be made to feel guilty because i'm not going to call him. I respect his decision to have conact with him and not jusitfy his reason, so why can he not understand/ respect my rights not to have contact. My dad was an abusive alcoholic and that is an influence that i don't want in my life of DD's.

My brother then went onto say i was am a stuck up ***** and pig headed because i don't want to talk to him or have contact with him. He said he wishes that i wasn't his sister because he thinks i don't talk to him or make an effort to contact him. If he didn't change his phone number every 2 days i might have an up to date number to contact him on.

He then went on to question why I took DD to NZ if she was soooo sick and if i can do that why i couldn't talk to him or my dad. Yes, DD was sick, We had her in hospital before we went away and the dr told us it was ok to fly but to keep and eye on her and go straight to a dr if things got any worse while we were there. I DON"T HAVE TO JUSTIFY THIS TO HIM OR ANYONE ELSE. not to mention i wasn't giving up $1200 of airfares!!!! (yes... see i do have a little bit of selfishness in me...)

Obviously, good sisters don't drop everything to go and pick their brothers up from the airport when they have broken up with thier GF's interstate and let them stay for a few weeks rent free, or stick up for them when they are in a fight, or go and pick them up when the police have been called to a fight between brother and father. Obviously, good sisters don't do this...

I felt like saying... well thats 2 less people i have to invite to my wedding if you wish i wasn't your sister!! But i don't want to lower myself to his level. Though after talking to my mum, we both agreed if he doesn't stop pressuring me to call, he won't be invited anyway. I don't want to deal with that crap on MY wedding day!

I know all families have their own problems... but why can't i have a sibling that i get along with and is NORMAL and appreciates everything i have done for them??? Rather than telling me they wish i wasn't thier sister... am i really that bad?? hmmm....