Oh Divvy ... I so know how you feel right now and I have no answers for you really.

I seperated from my XH in Sept 1999 and moved back to Adelaide in Oct 1999. He rang me New Years Day 2000 to tell me that he was engaged! I just laughed and said ok. I knew he had a gf as the kids had told me about her. He has quite a few gf since we split and the kids have met all of them ... they are now old enough to understand but he seems to have settled down a bit with his latest gf, who he is going to marry, according to the kids! I have never once had any feelings of jealousy ... I did leave him, why would I be jealous!!!

I would just casually bring it up in coverstation ... "Alex said you had a friend over the other night?" See what he says ... then take it from there!

Good luck

Cheers