Hi,
Hope things have improved today and it was just the full moon playing havoc on your house... although I believe the moon is not full at the moment

My DD has been soooo grizzly these last few days and it is doing my head in. I honestly don't know how you are managing with more than one at the moment with DS and the behaviour you have described. Kudos to you for making it through the day!

I really hope you find something to work, if my suggestions don't work for you, I am sure someone else will have some advice. However, I believe that kids are pretty cluey and as soon as you set some clear fair rules and stick to them, they begin to respond as they understand what is going on and what is expected of them, ie: when I bite/headbutt I end up without mum's attention and that is not good, hence, don't bite/headbutt. (Sounds so simple doesn't it!) I know it feels cruel, but if you just turn away from DS for a really short time to make the point then go on as normal, as in don't make a big fuss of making up etc.

(Sorry if I have just repeated myself, I guess I just want to support you to give it another go... )