Thanx girls

I think with Alecia being only 13 she will think what ever she like about him whether his is a numb skull or not. Being very impressionable and alway feeling like she was different because she never had a father I think no matter what he does or says she will like him.

There would be no chance of her wanting to live with him...

I don't speek bad about him... I have warned her he is no pillar of society and he lies a lot to make himself better off.

I am not sure she is old enough to make her own decisions about such things... I think she is blinded by the whole "wow I realy do have a dad". Not that I am about to stop her from meeting him. But I think she still needs a lot of protection in this situation.

This is hard to write down, but I was thinking the other day it would be so much easier if I just never know who knocked me up in the first place... or if I just told everyone I didn't know who the father was. The point is he isn't her father! Fathers don't behave in such a manner... My definition of a father is someone who loves you, protects you, spends time with you... you get my drift.

Why does he have rights to hold a place in my daughters mind and even her heart!? Because I had unprotected sex with him when I was 14?

I am going on a tangent... I am just all worried and confused trying to get to the bottom of my feelings... It's hard!

Tanya