Ohh i see. In that case id probably (personally) go with K's partner. I feel wierd calling my DP 'boyfriend' it feels like im in school again lol.

I dont feel like a 'Step Mum' either; but i had this dilema the other day when DSD had a rash and i wanted to get something from the chemist, i sat there for ages thinking what do i say? "Hi, my ... has a blah blah" never really figured out what goes where the ... is.

Geez im not much help ...