im not sure, i would give josh a little tap on the back of the hand if he was being very naugty and didnt listen to my 3 asks, it didnt do much difference apart form make him sit down and listen to me, i dont like the idea of smacking but i think sometimes you may have to, if i told josh of to loudly he would run to his room put his head onto his bed and cry, but then hed come straight back 3- 5 mins later giving me hugs

Lesley